Explore WILD relating
Where desire, vulnerability, and trust can finally coexist
You want pleasure that feels clean, simple, and yours.
You’re ready to trust your body's yes and your body's no with equal confidence.
Together, we’ll work towards developing a secure inner base — one that lets you move toward connection and love without abandoning your boundaries or losing yourself.
Work with me
Find the offering that best suits your needs
Somatic Attachment Healing
For those navigating anxious, avoidant, or disorganized attachment patterns. This session uses body- based techniques to help your nervous system learn new relational templates — moving from reactive protection toward earned security. No amount of insight alone can rewire what was wired in the body.
Investment: $165 for 60 minutes
6-pack: $990 (plus complimentary intake session)
Tantric Embodiment Focus
A guided journey into presence, sensation, and life-force energy through breath, movement, and awareness practices rooted in tantric tradition. This is not about performance — it’s about feeling. Suitable for individuals and couples seeking to deepen their relationship with pleasure, energy, and aliveness.
Investment: $165 for 60 minutes
6-pack: $990 (plus complimentary intake session)
Couples Reconnection Session
For partners who want to move beyond communication scripts and into felt connection. This session includes guided co-regulation practices, attachment pattern mapping, and embodied communication exercises. You’ll leave with practices that allow you to deepen communication, connection, and pleasure on your own.
Investment: $245 for 60 minutes
6-pack price: $990
Deep Reclamation Journey:
for Couples
A comprehensive 8 to 12 week journey for couples ready for sustained transformation.
Includes six 60-minute sessions (2 sessions as a couple and 2 individual sessions for each person), a detailed intake and nervous system assessment, customized embodiment practices and between-session support.
Investment: $990 for the journey
Deep Reclamation Journey:
for Individuals
A comprehensive 8 to 12 week journey for those ready for sustained transformation.
Includes six 60-minute sessions plus a complimentary detailed intake session, nervous system assessment, customized embodiment practices and between-session support.
Investment: $990 for the journey
I’m Sarah Wilder, Board Certified Sexologist and Certified Integrated Attachment Coach
The WILD Relating Process
Getting Started
When booking the first call, you'll fill out a short intake with the following questions. There are no right answers. Whatever you write is the perfect place to begin.
Our First Call
This is where we feel into it together. We'll talk about what's alive for you, what your body has been carrying, and what you're longing for. I'll share how I work and we'll both get honest about whether this is the right fit. By the end of the call, you'll already feel something different — the relief of being fully seen, heard and held.
Ongoing Sessions
Every session begins with a grounding practice and a check-in — not small talk, but a real landing. From there, we move at the pace of your nervous system. Some sessions are quiet and interior. Some crack you open. All of them are led by what your body is ready for that day, aligned with your stated goals for our work together.
The Experience
Working with me feels like being seen by someone who isn't trying to fix you. I track what your body is saying before you have words for it — a held breath, a shift in posture, the moment something softens. I won't push you past your edge, but I won't let you hide from it either. You'll be invited, never pushed — and somewhere inside that invitation, you'll find yourself going places you didn't think you were ready for.